This is a trip that you have been looking forward to for months. The beginning of May brings your older daughter’s college graduation. And while the college is 12 miles from home, it is a drive that you do not mind. Especially because this time you are getting to bring her home. At the end of the month, you will celebrate your younger daughter’s graduation from high school back home. Between the two celebrations you will be seeing nearly all of your closest friends and family. Even though you know that both of these events are about your daughters and…