Everyone knows your wedding day should be all about you — the blushing bride. However, the key to having a memorable wedding that people will be talking about for years to come is to make sure your guests are active participants. While some guests may enjoy just sitting back and watching your beautiful evening unfold, most like to be involved in the festivities and helping you make wonderful memories. After all, as your friends and family, your special day is important to them, too. One time-honored way your closest friends and family can be involved is by being part of…